Jan and moving

[The People]

(01-08-2014, 06:04 AM)nats Wrote:

(01-07-2014, 02:22 AM)The People Wrote: Bachelor is combination bedroom living room with full bath and kitchen. Usually smaller square footage which is why I need to get rid of stuff.

ah ok, that's what we call a 'studio' in UK. great that you've got a new better place and a moving plan/date - that sounds like a big relief. Jan will probably settle once she's not needed as much, but in terms of her own personal growth and finding better ways to fight (i.e. negotiate with difficult people) that probably requires practice. are you able to talk to her at all and make suggestions about more useful ways to engage with the landlord? changing habits is hard for any of us!

Jan goes off to her own corner of the castle and paints (no talent externally) when things settle. We stop existing. Something else to work on but with high numbers in our castle we have a few who we have never been able to reach. She is one. Thanks for the feedback.