question about email

[orek]

(09-16-2014, 07:56 PM)angel with wings Wrote: I think its because the littles are wanting the connection. having a hard time explaining it to them that this isn't working. so don't know what to do.

I totally get that, insiders wanting to connect, NEEDING to connect. This, to me, sounds like a need for a good therapist. A skilled, supportive T would be a safe person for all of you to reach out to. I know it's not for everyone here, but we have found that connection to be incredibly helpful and even vital. There's nothing wrong with your kids', or any of your, desire to reach out and be heard, understood. But it does seem as if this person is not able to meet that need. Most outsiders couldn't, to be honest. A relationship with a T is unique in its purpose, boundaries, and intimacy. IMO, that's what you all are needing. Just food for thought.....