Having difficulty figuring this one out....

[Tangled Web]

There can be patterns of things being wrong that can also lead the majority cases to the problems because you are a survivor also. Just because you have been victimized by someone doesn't mean that you have to remain a victim--but if that is what you chose to do it is your choice. I chose to see ourselves as survivors -- and will always continue to see us that way............touchy subject for us, just a fyi.