Resolution

[nats]

we gave up on T after several years b/c our T, who was lovely and well-intentioned, was unable to help with multiplicity issues. T is probably the best approach, but it doesn't work for everyone for all sorts of reasons.

what you could maybe do is work with T on the stuff she can help with and find other things that work for you (e.g. through trial and error and asking other multiples as you're doing here) for the things she can't help with. maybe try guided imagery and see if it works for you?