Do I tell him?

[Cammy]

Thank you so very much for your informed and honest opinions. Being a multiple myself I thought that I would have these answers for myself, but I think I am too close to the situation to be a completely neutral observer. Now that I have reviewed your thoughtful responses it makes sense to me not to abruptly inform him of his others. I agree that it might be too much of a shock wave for him, plus he will simply likely just go into denial. I think that the idea that if it comes up in casual conversation and he happens to ask if I've noticed others, I will GENTLY tell him "yes". If he wishes to know more about them he will continue to question me, but if the "yes' is all that he can handle at this time then I will not say anything else to him.

Thank you all so much for helping me with this. I just wasn't sure what to do. I think that for him the realization that he is a multiple is plenty for him to process right now, even though the knowledge was a relief to him in terms of understanding himself after all these years.

Again, thank you all so much for your input.