when, if ever, to leave T

[mosaic]

when i had more times where i went to t and had nothing to talk about than not was a good indication that i had gone as far as i could with that t. that's my current situation. i fired a few ts in the past ... we hit an impasse or something happened to make me not feel safe with them, but i always found a new t, so it wasn't because i was ready to stop.

there are some times when i wish i had a t still, but i think it's more pining for the t i had in colorado where i really made some progress and really felt safe and understood. moving away was a major loss for me, and truthfully i dont know if i'll ever go to t again because all ts will be measured against that standard and i am not sure anyone else will ever measure up. that is part of what was going on with the t i saw where i live now.

so i guess the short answer is, i decided it was time to stop (with the t i had here) when i no longer had anything to say.