is this a bad thing?

[Dreamscapes Collectives]

we have this question. is it truly a bad thing to live for someone else if you just cannot live for yourself? we honestly have no real reason to continue existing if we are simply trying to find one within ourselves. we've only made it this far bc we had people to keep moving forward for. if we don't have someone outside of ourselves, it's like we have no reason at all to continue.

is this a bad thing? and if it is, why is it?

(btw, just to be clear, we are safe and no one intends to do anything to harm ourselves. this is simply something we have struggled with for many years and have been constantly confounded when told we need to have a reason within ourselves to keep existing. bc at this point none of us see that happening. we hurt too much and are just too tired to try for our own selves.)