Accusation that has stabbed us in the heart

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when people get/have money, they tend to see everyone in terms of how much they want (or worse, how much they will cost). not always/every person with money of course, but it is a pervasive attitude. maybe you just stepped into this, but definitely not worth taking personally. maybe be completely straight with them and say 'i help because you were good to me and i am grateful, but if you are concerned i'm after something of yours then what i'm doing for you is clearly more harm than help and we can go our separate ways without bad feelings.' unfortunately, you can't be this honest with a lot of people, still may be it's possible to talk in some way? mainly, don't take it personally..