New here and could use some help
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David Offline
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New here and could use some help
Today I'll see a doctor for the first time about us. We found this forum in hopes to find more like us. We have always gotten along for the last 30 years. 3 weeks ago one of us fell in love. But its not with our spouse, and the stress is destroying our group. She wants her own life and is tired of being part of the whole. Has anyone else had this happen. We know everyone is different but any advice would help.

(This post was last modified: 11-18-2014, 06:07 AM by David.)
11-18-2014, 06:06 AM
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nats Offline
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RE: New here and could use some help
hi David and others, welcome to the forums. that's a tough one, since no one sharing a system can ever entirely have their own life, really. it's always going to involve compromises and compassion.
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11-18-2014, 06:26 PM
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me an two also want are own life but not to love things jest are kittes. thisa good plase to tok abot stuff. we alredy rited yu up there or down there whatever. we lve in canadsa. but we gots less snow then new york.
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11-19-2014, 08:25 PM
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Hi David and all,

Welcome to the forums. We're glad you've joined us.

11-19-2014, 11:58 PM
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