new memory - betrayal of friend - not sure what to believe
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canucklady1971 Offline

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new memory - betrayal of friend - not sure what to believe

I have friend i have known in forever. We grew up together.
He is in army and came back from afghanistan pretty messed up
He was staying with his brother, but his sister in law didnt want him around
So a I let him stay at my place

Teen part hates when he is around....nightmares etc
I thought was just because he gets drunk and angrry at world

Nightmares and flashbacks from teen part have been getting worse
I was bullied as teen and one night at a party hurt badly by several people.
Teen part told therapist that this friend was there and one of people who hurt me and he needs to stay away from us

Having hard time believing it is true. How can I not know something like that???
Been very disoriented since session which ran later.

Not sure what to believe anymore
09-28-2014, 08:31 PM
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Tangled Web Offline
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RE: new memory - betrayal of friend - not sure what to believe
We are so sorry. This is one of the toughest spots to be in for us and haven't been able to come up with any solutions-everything always feels wrong whichever way we try to go.
Sitting with yous
"You may not remember what someone says or does, but you will never forget how they made you feel" Mac Anderson.
09-29-2014, 11:56 PM
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nats Offline
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RE: new memory - betrayal of friend - not sure what to believe
so sorry, canucklady. sitting and listening if you want.
Blush Learn how to manage conflict, because the greater the level you can tolerate, the more freedom you will retain - E. Walsh Smile
09-30-2014, 04:55 AM
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