Grieving a Lost Childhood

[MakersDozn]

Hi orek,

Our relationship with our T is a very good one with healthy boundaries. It's the best place for us to start working on learning how to meet these needs in a healthy way.

I'm only beginning to realize the depth of how these issues have affected me. Affected us. I became very angry over the weekend when I thought of how our mother gave birth to us and to each of our two brothers under complete anesthesia, when this was not medically necessary in any of the three births.

This was what was done in the 1960s. And I can't say that we wouldn't have chosen the same option had we been in her position. But I still feel so angry that she chose to cut herself off with that first experience of bonding with each of her children.

Thanks and take care,

Charity