Messages In This Thread
RE: So often people go looking for birth family - The People - 10-26-2019, 04:13 AM
So often people go looking for birth family
Author Message
The People Offline
Long Time Member Who grew Up Here
*****

Posts: 2,869
Threads: 1,021
Joined: Jun 2012
#3
RE: So often people go looking for birth family
Coincidentally I was watching Grey's Anatomy and a follow up to this came up. Feeling guilty because of what was done to us. The woman felt shame because her disgusting mother pulled her hand away when the child was sitting next to her.

So many of us feel ashamed and embarrassed and so many other feelings that we try to repress. And fail, especially in the early years of recovery. The self-blame. It must have been our fault, especially if we had more than one b@stard or b!tch messing us up. Part of healing is finally recognizing that none of it was our fault.
I Am My Only Chance For A Hero!
10-26-2019, 04:13 AM
Find Reply


Messages In This Thread
RE: So often people go looking for birth family - The People - 10-26-2019, 04:13 AM

Possibly Related Threads...
Thread Author Replies Views Last Post
Angry Some people win, some people lose The People 3 2,923 08-02-2018, 03:58 PM
Last Post: Collectively US
Sad Family purpleball 14 7,775 07-21-2016, 07:27 PM
Last Post: nats
Angry Set off another family bomb The People 0 1,579 06-19-2016, 11:38 PM
Last Post: The People

Forum Jump: