Newbie Loved One With Probable DID

[nats]

hi KoalaGirl, it's great to be supportive, but just make sure you don't try to be his knight in shining armour. none of us can rescue someone who isn't willing to rescue themselves and system responsibility is as crucial for a multiple as personal responsibility is for an individual. you can give him support, but he'll have to do the hard work himself and part of that hard work includes choosing to be decent and respectful to you. please take care of yourself.