How T sees me

[nats]

this is ever the issue - the difference with the total acceptance we seek and the partial acceptance that others are able to offer. the reality is that we're all taught to protect selves first and keep boundaries against people who 'drain us' or are too messy in various ways. this is healthy, but also means when we are the draining messy ones, healthy people won't want to be around us..

applauding you for keeping those coffee relationships going.

sitting nearby in the dark times if you want..