comment on forgiveness..

[Downtherabbithole]

Interesting discussion... its left me with a few thoughts to ponder. I hadnt thought bout the forgiveness part I just wanted to be free n to heal from what's been done n start living life. I wasn't thinking I'd never forgive, but to me , in my situation I was responsible for what happened because if my weakness n vulnerability n I had to make it different. Maybe putting responsibility on the person makes me feel even more powerless to change how things are. If its my fault, than I just have to do better next time so it doesn't happen again. If i fail, n things go wrong its not fault of other person its my fault for not being strong enough, i just need fo be stronger next time. Whatever part of me that may have anger towards him or others like him or that would want to fight for justice for me doesn't seem to exist or if they do, they aren't around where can see. It's not been about forgiving him its been about doing better and I guess I never forgave myself if it comes down to it. But again its not been something really thought too much about, don't like to think too much. It's dangerous. But this has left me with something's to think about.