Looking for serious feedback

[The People]

(01-18-2014, 01:02 AM)dreamers Wrote: just a thought but, have you ever thought of mentoring kids ( like the big brother or big sister organizations). I used to do that and we had a lot of kids with the emotional problems you described. It might give you a chance to see what it is like to deal with kids like that. that in turn could help you decide if fostering full time is for you.

Also, I will soon be starting an online mentoring for littles and " inner-kids" ( some people who are not multy nonetheless, feel like some very real part of themselves is still emotionally processing things the way a kid does; even though they have physically and intellectually grown to adulthood. they normally use the term innerkid to denote this part). They group will have online chore charts(on a site called habit RPG that is designed for all ages) set up by the bigs with online rewards such as movie and game nights for doing the chores. it will also have consequences ( in the form of written essays and lines but, only for those who indicate that such a thing would be safe for them/ their system).

If mentoring a little or group of littles/iks would help fill the void you would be welcome to come see if its for you.

btw to the admin: My group will be a mentor/mentee group not an ageplay group. I know how people here feel about AP. My hope is to give littles a sense of belonging to a community where they can also have more of an experience that mirrors what some biological kids have. I do not have a link yet but, i can post it here on mm once it is up if the admin are okay with the idea. the absolutely wonderful experience that my system has had with a mentor, gave me the idea that perhaps others would enjoy something similar.

Thank you for the feedback. I was a big sister several times. Hit it off with some but not with others. That was a different sort of role. One LS was shy and dealt with it by smacking her brothers in front of me. Once I explained that it was her house but please don't do that in front of me because hitting isn't good. I think that was out last time. I have thought about B&G Club here. Dunno. I am in a bad place right now. Not self harm bad. Just too much going wrong and...