I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life

[WendyLee]

orek, that is a good point. a few months ago we tried to get a local therapist who would come to our house, but their communication in-house and with me was terrible and 2 different therapists did not show up and did not call to say the were not coming and one lied 3 different times about why she did not show up. this was just a couple of months ago and it still hurts.

there are other therapy options locally but since we plan to move in a few months we do not want to start with anyone new. we have tried to use many local therapists in the past but found they had no idea what to do with us and we were actually worse off for having seen them.

we are looking forward to moving to a city soon where there is a psych hospital/college and getting a therapist there. We want to try to go to lots of different groups there like glbt, meetups, singing, VA PTSD daily group therapy, VA volunteering, AA, NA, metaphysics groups, maybe the Unitarian or Unity Church. BUT city life has its own nasty and horrible forms of stress for us - too much traffic, crowds, loud noises, bad ppl, criminals and high costs, so we are really hating the idea, too. *sigh* catch 22...