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[Cammy]

I visited this chat room last night (not a mental health site, but an recovery site), and it was supposed to have a respectful chat room policy. I was actually astounded at the back-biting and disrespectful atmosphere on that site. It was then I realized that obviously other chat rooms with little rules would be many times worse. I guess I am spoiled by Mosaic Minds. It truly is a SAFE PLACE for people as sensitive as we are to come and be heard without fear of being attacked or made fun of. I really was shocked at the nastiness of the other site and the total lack of regard for other's feelings. Basic social politeness was totally absent. This is a testament to the way this site is so well run by the moderators, and by the individuals themselves who use it. The people here seem to be particularly sensitive to the feelings of the other members, and in the years that I have used this forum, I have never experienced any uncomfortable feelings.

I hope that this will encourage those who are feeling timid about posting to just go ahead and dive in. It is good to get support by reading the posts of others, but you are cheating yourself of true support by remaining quiet. Trust is a big issue for those with DID, but I can assure you that here you will only experience understanding and support from those who share much in common with you. So, all of you who are lurking in the shadows, please take a brave step forward into the light to hold hands with the rest of this community. Whatever you have to contribute, even if it seems trivial to you, will be well met and might help others understand themselves better. The whole point of forums such as this, is to know that others share your struggles. In order for this community to be vibrant and useful, we need as many voices to be heard as possible. So, please don't be shy - your welcome awaits you with open arms and unjudgmental hearts.

Igraine