Estate Stuff

[MakersDozn]

Thanks, nats. We've been feeling very down lately.

For one thing, the loss of our father is very different from the loss of our mother. Our relationships with the two were very different.

Secondly, when our mother died 14 years ago, our father handled all of the estate stuff. Now it's up to us and our brothers, and even with them sharing the burden, it still feels overwhelming at times.

Thirdly, our ongoing system issues and our 3d life issues (largely work) bring even more stress. Oftentimes it feels like we're living moment to moment.

At least we have a good T, and we're doing well there. But that progress seems like a drop in a bucket moving at a snail's pace, if you pardon the mixed metaphor. Too little, too slowly.

MDs