Rules/agreement inside

[MakersDozn]

We too are high-functioning, but we often have clashes inside with regard to desires and opinions. This is further complicated by the fact that our older teens are more equipped to deal with the outside world than our bigs are, and this disparity causes resentment and adds to the internal conflict. But that dynamic is a topic for another (or several other) threads.

What we've found is that no matter how fair or democratic a system is, somebody with good judgment and the ability to deal with the outside needs to be in charge. Several insiders in our system have had this job over the years, with varying results. Our goal is still to have all of the bigs participating actively as a governing group, but that is quite a way off.

Hoping you're able to do what's best for you.

MDs