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Thread: Trying to not be DID
Post: Trying to not be DID
| I've disappeared because I'm trying to not be DID. I decided I didn't like this and I wanted to stop.
But it didn't work. At all. I just don't want to be multiple anymore.
It has been two years sinc... |
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Therapy Lane |
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11-25-2018, 11:34 PM |
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Thread: Screwed up at oraal stage
Post: RE: Screwed up at oraal stage
| Thanks, People. we agree. We also think that your mother is nuts and we are sorry you had to go through that. |
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Therapy Lane |
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07-30-2018, 12:13 PM |
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Thread: Screwed up at oraal stage
Post: RE: Screwed up at oraal stage
| My biological mother tells the story over and over again about how he put our crib on the other side of the house when we were young so she didn't hear us cry. The biological mother says it like she d... |
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Therapy Lane |
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07-24-2018, 10:04 PM |
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Thread: Rough spot
Post: RE: Rough spot
| We think that you know if staying where you are is better, or if it is better to stay where you are. It can be hard to trust ourselves but I think we always know what is best. |
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Shadows |
Steam Room |
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07-18-2018, 10:26 PM |
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Thread: Where is everybody
Post: RE: Where is everybody
| It wasn't our kitty so no, we didn't trim the nails. But I think we are finally healing! |
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Town Square |
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07-18-2018, 10:09 PM |
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Thread: Where is everybody
Post: RE: Where is everybody
| I think we are all forgetting things, including how to post here. At least that is what is happening with all of us!
I'm sorry that you got scratched again. Right now we have a circle of four little ... |
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Shadows |
Town Square |
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4,496 |
07-14-2018, 01:07 PM |
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Thread: What should DID symbol be?
Post: RE: What should DID symbol be?
| I think about being a kid and braiding embroidery floss - each of the three strands of the braid is made up of lots of little strands.
Kind of like my hair, too. I can braid it but each of the three ... |
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Shadows |
Town Square |
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05-30-2018, 10:00 PM |
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Thread: Sick and Everyone is Gone
Post: RE: Sick and Everyone is Gone
| We are feeling mostly better now. Thank you all. We are trying to rest still but that is really hard for us because everyone wants a chance in the day to do whatever it is they are interested in. |
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Health Center |
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05-21-2018, 11:49 PM |
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Thread: I had a wonderful weekend!
Post: RE: I had a wonderful weekend!
| We are so glad that you had a good day. Good days are so nice when they come! |
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Town Square |
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05-21-2018, 11:21 PM |
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Thread: Reaching out
Post: RE: Reaching out
| It sounds like leaving is a good idea. Of course it is hard, though. I think that change is hard ... and for those of us who struggle just to maintain homeostasis among ourselves, I think that change ... |
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Shadows |
Town Square |
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05-21-2018, 11:20 PM |
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Thread: Hello everyone
Post: RE: Hello everyone
| Hi Collectively US. I hope that you find this place helpful. We have been around here for about a year, with some time off doing we don't even know what. But when we are here we find it super helpful ... |
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Welcome Wagon |
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05-16-2018, 11:16 AM |
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Thread: Sick and Everyone is Gone
Post: Sick and Everyone is Gone
| The body is sick right now. Nothing major, just a headcold. Mostly just annoying because we need to rest to make it go away. But I am also having the sense that all the insiders have fled and I'm arou... |
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Shadows |
Health Center |
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4,331 |
05-16-2018, 09:54 AM |
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Thread: I Want To Try Again
Post: RE: I Want To Try Again
| The People - that describes us so well. So much better than I could have ever voiced. We hold it together for work. I don't know where the little ones are when we work, but they don't come out. But th... |
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Shadows |
Town Square |
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05-12-2018, 01:36 PM |
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Thread: Looking for experience from others
Post: RE: Looking for experience from others
| We feel confused about love, too. We know we loved our sister. We know we loved our cat. Those were loves that burned deep; we would have given our own lived for those two. But we aren't sure if we ha... |
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Shadows |
Town Square |
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05-09-2018, 10:55 PM |
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Thread: Hi!
Post: RE: Hi!
| hi Jules, it is good to meet you. We are Shadows. We were here about a year ago but then we disappeared; we are trying again to be present. Hope to see you around. |
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Welcome Wagon |
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05-09-2018, 10:46 PM |
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Thread: I Want To Try Again
Post: RE: I Want To Try Again
| Thanks, just peachy. We have just been consumed with working and survival.
It's weird, we have such good focus when it is work. We work so much. But then staying focused on being stable and doing th... |
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Town Square |
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05-09-2018, 10:39 PM |
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Thread: I Want To Try Again
Post: I Want To Try Again
| I wandered away from here. Not sure why. But I want to try again ... I don't know how to stay focused and present though and I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to not accidentally get distracte... |
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Town Square |
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05-05-2018, 11:52 PM |
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Thread: Holiday Panic
Post: RE: Holiday Panic
| Thank you . everyone. We are trying to stay calm. About to head to FOO but not for the abusers but for our siblings that have to go and have no choice - feels like an important thing to support them.
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Steam Room |
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12-24-2017, 03:02 PM |
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Thread: Holiday Panic
Post: Holiday Panic
| We hate the holidays. No good decision on what to do. FOO is awful to be near but being alone is hard too.
And what we hate the most is that the whole world seems to stop for a week and a half and it... |
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Shadows |
Steam Room |
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12-22-2017, 12:36 PM |
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Thread: Question for people with lap tops.
Post: RE: Question for people with lap tops.
| UI have a laptop. But I think the tricky thing is to know what is normal for that particular one. Mine dings when I get a message.
You could try to google the model number and ask Google if dinging ... |
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Town Square |
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11-28-2017, 03:20 AM |
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Thread: Our turn for dental fear
Post: RE: Our turn for dental fear
| We hope that you were able to find some care for your teeth. I know how hard it is. And scary. But worrying about it is always worse than dealing with it, and it always helps us to remember that. |
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Health Center |
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11-25-2017, 10:42 PM |
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Thread: Nightmare
Post: RE: Nightmare
| I'm sorry that you had a horrible nightmare. They are the worst. I hope that you have been able to get some better sleep since then.
We have nightmares every time we fall asleep, so we know how bad i... |
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Shadows |
Therapy Lane |
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11-13-2017, 01:02 AM |
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Thread: I haven't checked in here for years
Post: RE: I haven't checked in here for years
| Hi, I'm newer than you are, but it is really nice to meet you. We are pretty new to this whole thing (MM and DID) and are still trying to figure out how to handle everything. But it has been nice to "... |
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Town Square |
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11-13-2017, 12:09 AM |
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Thread: Dental Work Panic
Post: RE: Dental Work Panic
| Thanks again, everyone. Working on the eating thing. At least we lost that couple pounds that had been hanging on? |
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Shadows |
Health Center |
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11-13-2017, 12:08 AM |
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Thread: Dental Work Panic
Post: RE: Dental Work Panic
| Just an update that everything is mostly okay (as far as the tooth is concerned). Glued back in. Not expensive.
Now just dealing with the aftermath of dental panic. Still can't chew anything, so tryi... |
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Health Center |
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5,895 |
11-03-2017, 02:51 PM |
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Thread: Dental Work Panic
Post: Dental Work Panic
| Had a crown fall out last night. Dentist can't get us in until tomorrow. We are panicking. The younger ones about having to go to the dentist, me about potential cost and potential issues. What if he ... |
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Shadows |
Health Center |
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5,895 |
11-01-2017, 01:24 PM |
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Thread: metoo meme
Post: RE: metoo meme
| I'm really struggling with everything I see with this. I don't want to discount anyone's experience but to have my experiences lumped in with those who have been cat called feels a bit dismissive of t... |
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Shadows |
Town Square |
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10-18-2017, 12:20 PM |
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Thread: How Do I know If I'm Making it Up
Post: RE: How Do I know If I'm Making it Up
| I don't know if I can do that, but I am trying. Thanks, Nats, I appreciate the response. We are all still in a jumble over here trying to figure stuff out. It is hard. |
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Shadows |
Therapy Lane |
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10-02-2017, 09:48 PM |
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Thread: We are a cloud
Post: RE: We are a cloud
| Hi CloudofWitnesses, it is good to meet you. We try to come on here and post regularly but there are some of us that have different ideas of how to spend the body's time so it comes and goes. I think ... |
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Shadows |
Welcome Wagon |
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10-02-2017, 09:46 PM |
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Thread: Not just surviving
Post: RE: Not just surviving
| Thank you for the reminder of how strong multiples actually are. We are trying to remember this. But it is hard sometimes. |
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Shadows |
Town Square |
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5,336 |
10-02-2017, 09:44 PM |
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