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    Thread: T is leaving
Post: RE: T is leaving

Thanks. I am doing better.
argent Therapy Lane 6 3,492 04-04-2016, 08:28 PM
    Thread: T is leaving
Post: RE: T is leaving

Thanks, Nats, I am doing better. It does help to be able to connect with people who have gone through this, too, and understand.
argent Steam Room 7 3,486 04-04-2016, 08:26 PM
    Thread: How does one keep believing
Post: RE: How does one keep believing

It's the toughest question for me, also, why did I have to suffer, continue to suffer? What kind of God allows the abusers to walk this earth? I keep hanging onto hope and keep trying to learn and f...
argent Cafe Esprit 19 13,979 04-04-2016, 08:24 PM
    Thread: chr need to talk about stuff and gots a qwestion
Post: RE: chr need to talk about stuff and gots a qwesti...

You are so clever, dreamers. And kind and generous. I also agree with what mosaic said, too.
argent Cafe Esprit 8 5,971 04-04-2016, 08:08 PM
    Thread: T is leaving
Post: RE: T is leaving

Thank you for the responses. It does help. I have made it through the last few days and am coming to some semblance of equilibrium. I will work with my T on this transition. Nats - the insiders ...
argent Steam Room 7 3,486 03-31-2016, 10:06 AM
  May trigger Thread: T is leaving
Post: T is leaving

     My T is leaving and it feels like the end of the world.  Lots to process.  I just found out yesterday.  It's just me, my journal and a bunch of different colored pens today.  Sitting with it.  I ...
argent Steam Room 7 3,486 03-29-2016, 10:43 AM
    Thread: So overwhelmed
Post: RE: So overwhelmed

How is the new place working out? Did they fix your toilet and sink?
argent Steam Room 4 2,690 03-29-2016, 10:26 AM
    Thread: rough time
Post: RE: rough time

Thank you Silent and People for telling me the background. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I have to say goodbye to my T, also. Just found out yesterday. It's going to be rough, but I am gr...
argent Steam Room 8 3,795 03-29-2016, 10:23 AM
    Thread: About Two
Post: RE: About Two

I thought I was the only one who had such stubborn littles! Sorry to hear she is causing a ruckus. Are things getting better now that Easter has passed?
argent Steam Room 6 4,075 03-29-2016, 10:16 AM
    Thread: need vice pls
Post: RE: need vice pls

Hey Kayla, I'll bet you did a great job and the bigs really appreciated you helping out. You deserve a treat! I agree with the above posts and hope things work out okay.
argent Steam Room 3 2,279 03-29-2016, 10:11 AM
    Thread: T is leaving
Post: RE: T is leaving

Thank you, also, for your response, nats.  
argent Therapy Lane 6 3,492 03-29-2016, 10:06 AM
    Thread: T is leaving
Post: RE: T is leaving

Part of me is always looking for an excuse to pull up stakes. I call her Flee. It is tempting to leave. She is convinced that things would be better elsewhere. It's how we survived childhood, jus...
argent Therapy Lane 6 3,492 03-29-2016, 10:04 AM
  May trigger Thread: T is leaving
Post: T is leaving

T told me today she is leaving and will no longer be able to be my T.  She is my first T and we have worked together for 8 years.  The DID and parts work emerged after 4 years.  I'm a mess.  I don't t...
argent Therapy Lane 6 3,492 03-28-2016, 01:08 PM
    Thread: Can't forgive T
Post: RE: Can't forgive T

I hope you get to a place where it sorts itself out. It can take some time, be gentle with yourself. You sound like you know what you want to do about it. Wishing you strength and patience, if you ...
argent Therapy Lane 14 7,968 03-28-2016, 12:57 PM
    Thread: Different reason for overwhelmed
Post: RE: Different reason for overwhelmed

Things disappear, it sucks. Then, they reappear and it's like a present. I try to ignore the head scratching, "How did that happen."
argent Steam Room 4 2,843 03-28-2016, 12:29 PM
    Thread: Hi
Post: RE: Hi

Hi, WeAreKaren!
argent Welcome Wagon 13 7,550 03-28-2016, 12:17 PM
    Thread: Just introducing myself
Post: RE: Just introducing myself

Hi!
argent Welcome Wagon 4 2,733 03-28-2016, 12:12 PM
    Thread: Hello, again
Post: Hello, again

:)   Hello everyone.  I have been away for some time.  Time can be a funny thing in the DID universe.  I have continued on my healing journey.  Coming to terms with my diagnosis, working on the basics...
argent Welcome Wagon 3 2,492 02-29-2016, 03:26 PM
    Thread: Comparison of challeged lives
Post: RE: Comparison of challeged lives

I have often wondered about raising awareness in our community about DID, but it seems an overwhelming issue. It seems like a good idea to work to remove the stigma of how the trauma (sexual abuse) o...
argent Town Square 15 6,923 02-29-2016, 03:06 PM
    Thread: rough time
Post: RE: rough time

Are you still working with your T? Why do you think each session is going to be the last? Are you uncomfortable with your T? I hope things are settling down for you. Be kind and patient with yours...
argent Steam Room 8 3,795 02-29-2016, 02:32 PM
    Thread: In 6 days
Post: RE: In 6 days

I like your avatar. I hope you got past your red dot day to a brand new day. I lost my kitty a few months ago, I'm sorry you don't have yours anymore. I have a small doggy who helps me a lot. I wi...
argent Therapy Lane 2 2,085 02-29-2016, 02:28 PM
    Thread: Greetings
Post: RE: Greetings

Hi there. Welcome. I haven't been here in awhile, so it feels kind of new. I've a diagnosis as DID. Been in therapy for years with a wonderful T. Your name caught my attention because I've been l...
argent Welcome Wagon 8 4,439 02-29-2016, 02:11 PM
    Thread: So Pleased!
Post: RE: So Pleased!

Good for you, sailing smooth waters.
argent Therapy Lane 5 3,291 11-08-2013, 11:03 AM
    Thread: Don't want to go
Post: RE: Don't want to go

I respect and admire that you can actually identify how you feel and can take steps to continue your plans, even through discomfort and anxiety. Are you back home with your kitties, yet? I have some...
argent Steam Room 2 2,000 11-07-2013, 08:43 PM
    Thread: Grief
Post: RE: Grief

Thank you.
argent Steam Room 3 2,337 11-07-2013, 08:27 PM
    Thread: say hello to our grandson
Post: RE: say hello to our grandson

He is a real cutie pie! I'll bet he smells really good, too!
argent Town Square 33 34,587 11-07-2013, 12:38 PM
  May trigger Thread: Grief
Post: Grief

my protector, Nik, led me to the place where the little girl was drowned in dark water. (I was in session with my T.) Nik knew where and why she drowned. I've never been really grateful to him befo...
argent Steam Room 3 2,337 11-07-2013, 12:29 PM
    Thread: Hello.
Post: RE: Hello.

Hello! It has been quite some time since I visited, too. The old site, matter of fact. I thought my browser was mistaken when I saw the home page lol.
argent Town Square 12 5,246 11-07-2013, 10:36 AM
    Thread: ANGER
Post: RE: ANGER

Sometimes I just draw a picture if I've run out of photocopies of him or if it's someone or a situation of whom I do not have a photograph. That's when my crayons and paper come in handy. I have som...
argent Steam Room 14 6,538 11-07-2013, 09:45 AM
    Thread: ANGER
Post: RE: ANGER

Good for you, taking action and talking to the social worker's boss. When we feel this kind of anger, it seems to need a target, to help move it through me and stop festering and draining my energy. ...
argent Steam Room 14 6,538 11-06-2013, 08:20 PM