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    Thread: Trying to not be DID
Post: Trying to not be DID

I've disappeared because I'm trying to not be DID. I decided I didn't like this and I wanted to stop. But it didn't work. At all. I just don't want to be multiple anymore. It has been two years sinc...
Shadows Therapy Lane 3 1,294 11-25-2018, 11:34 PM
    Thread: Screwed up at oraal stage
Post: RE: Screwed up at oraal stage

Thanks, People. we agree. We also think that your mother is nuts and we are sorry you had to go through that.
Shadows Therapy Lane 8 2,589 07-30-2018, 12:13 PM
    Thread: Screwed up at oraal stage
Post: RE: Screwed up at oraal stage

My biological mother tells the story over and over again about how he put our crib on the other side of the house when we were young so she didn't hear us cry. The biological mother says it like she d...
Shadows Therapy Lane 8 2,589 07-24-2018, 10:04 PM
    Thread: Rough spot
Post: RE: Rough spot

We think that you know if staying where you are is better, or if it is better to stay where you are. It can be hard to trust ourselves but I think we always know what is best.
Shadows Steam Room 15 2,886 07-18-2018, 10:26 PM
    Thread: Where is everybody
Post: RE: Where is everybody

It wasn't our kitty so no, we didn't trim the nails. But I think we are finally healing!
Shadows Town Square 5 1,420 07-18-2018, 10:09 PM
    Thread: Where is everybody
Post: RE: Where is everybody

I think we are all forgetting things, including how to post here. At least that is what is happening with all of us! I'm sorry that you got scratched again. Right now we have a circle of four little ...
Shadows Town Square 5 1,420 07-14-2018, 01:07 PM
    Thread: What should DID symbol be?
Post: RE: What should DID symbol be?

I think about being a kid and braiding embroidery floss - each of the three strands of the braid is made up of lots of little strands. Kind of like my hair, too. I can braid it but each of the three ...
Shadows Town Square 36 8,309 05-30-2018, 10:00 PM
    Thread: Sick and Everyone is Gone
Post: RE: Sick and Everyone is Gone

We are feeling mostly better now. Thank you all. We are trying to rest still but that is really hard for us because everyone wants a chance in the day to do whatever it is they are interested in.
Shadows Health Center 3 1,516 05-21-2018, 11:49 PM
    Thread: I had a wonderful weekend!
Post: RE: I had a wonderful weekend!

We are so glad that you had a good day. Good days are so nice when they come!
Shadows Town Square 9 2,244 05-21-2018, 11:21 PM
    Thread: Reaching out
Post: RE: Reaching out

It sounds like leaving is a good idea. Of course it is hard, though. I think that change is hard ... and for those of us who struggle just to maintain homeostasis among ourselves, I think that change ...
Shadows Town Square 16 3,861 05-21-2018, 11:20 PM
    Thread: Hello everyone
Post: RE: Hello everyone

Hi Collectively US. I hope that you find this place helpful. We have been around here for about a year, with some time off doing we don't even know what. But when we are here we find it super helpful ...
Shadows Welcome Wagon 6 2,510 05-16-2018, 11:16 AM
    Thread: Sick and Everyone is Gone
Post: Sick and Everyone is Gone

The body is sick right now. Nothing major, just a headcold. Mostly just annoying because we need to rest to make it go away. But I am also having the sense that all the insiders have fled and I'm arou...
Shadows Health Center 3 1,516 05-16-2018, 09:54 AM
    Thread: I Want To Try Again
Post: RE: I Want To Try Again

The People - that describes us so well. So much better than I could have ever voiced. We hold it together for work. I don't know where the little ones are when we work, but they don't come out. But th...
Shadows Town Square 9 2,504 05-12-2018, 01:36 PM
    Thread: Looking for experience from others
Post: RE: Looking for experience from others

We feel confused about love, too. We know we loved our sister. We know we loved our cat. Those were loves that burned deep; we would have given our own lived for those two. But we aren't sure if we ha...
Shadows Town Square 13 3,171 05-09-2018, 10:55 PM
    Thread: Hi!
Post: RE: Hi!

hi Jules, it is good to meet you. We are Shadows. We were here about a year ago but then we disappeared; we are trying again to be present. Hope to see you around.
Shadows Welcome Wagon 8 3,578 05-09-2018, 10:46 PM
    Thread: I Want To Try Again
Post: RE: I Want To Try Again

Thanks, just peachy. We have just been consumed with working and survival. It's weird, we have such good focus when it is work. We work so much. But then staying focused on being stable and doing th...
Shadows Town Square 9 2,504 05-09-2018, 10:39 PM
    Thread: I Want To Try Again
Post: I Want To Try Again

I wandered away from here. Not sure why. But I want to try again ... I don't know how to stay focused and present though and I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to not accidentally get distracte...
Shadows Town Square 9 2,504 05-05-2018, 11:52 PM
    Thread: Holiday Panic
Post: RE: Holiday Panic

Thank you . everyone. We are trying to stay calm. About to head to FOO but not for the abusers but for our siblings that have to go and have no choice - feels like an important thing to support them. ...
Shadows Steam Room 5 1,547 12-24-2017, 03:02 PM
    Thread: Holiday Panic
Post: Holiday Panic

We hate the holidays. No good decision on what to do. FOO is awful to be near but being alone is hard too. And what we hate the most is that the whole world seems to stop for a week and a half and it...
Shadows Steam Room 5 1,547 12-22-2017, 12:36 PM
    Thread: Question for people with lap tops.
Post: RE: Question for people with lap tops.

UI have a laptop. But I think the tricky thing is to know what is normal for that particular one. Mine dings when I get a message. You could try to google the model number and ask Google if dinging ...
Shadows Town Square 5 1,295 11-28-2017, 03:20 AM
    Thread: Our turn for dental fear
Post: RE: Our turn for dental fear

We hope that you were able to find some care for your teeth. I know how hard it is. And scary. But worrying about it is always worse than dealing with it, and it always helps us to remember that.
Shadows Health Center 8 1,975 11-25-2017, 10:42 PM
    Thread: Nightmare
Post: RE: Nightmare

I'm sorry that you had a horrible nightmare. They are the worst. I hope that you have been able to get some better sleep since then. We have nightmares every time we fall asleep, so we know how bad i...
Shadows Therapy Lane 2 1,539 11-13-2017, 01:02 AM
    Thread: I haven't checked in here for years
Post: RE: I haven't checked in here for years

Hi, I'm newer than you are, but it is really nice to meet you. We are pretty new to this whole thing (MM and DID) and are still trying to figure out how to handle everything. But it has been nice to "...
Shadows Town Square 8 2,630 11-13-2017, 12:09 AM
    Thread: Dental Work Panic
Post: RE: Dental Work Panic

Thanks again, everyone. Working on the eating thing. At least we lost that couple pounds that had been hanging on?
Shadows Health Center 6 1,750 11-13-2017, 12:08 AM
    Thread: Dental Work Panic
Post: RE: Dental Work Panic

Just an update that everything is mostly okay (as far as the tooth is concerned). Glued back in. Not expensive. Now just dealing with the aftermath of dental panic. Still can't chew anything, so tryi...
Shadows Health Center 6 1,750 11-03-2017, 02:51 PM
    Thread: Dental Work Panic
Post: Dental Work Panic

Had a crown fall out last night. Dentist can't get us in until tomorrow. We are panicking. The younger ones about having to go to the dentist, me about potential cost and potential issues. What if he ...
Shadows Health Center 6 1,750 11-01-2017, 01:24 PM
    Thread: metoo meme
Post: RE: metoo meme

I'm really struggling with everything I see with this. I don't want to discount anyone's experience but to have my experiences lumped in with those who have been cat called feels a bit dismissive of t...
Shadows Town Square 12 3,051 10-18-2017, 12:20 PM
    Thread: How Do I know If I'm Making it Up
Post: RE: How Do I know If I'm Making it Up

I don't know if I can do that, but I am trying. Thanks, Nats, I appreciate the response. We are all still in a jumble over here trying to figure stuff out. It is hard.
Shadows Therapy Lane 13 4,403 10-02-2017, 09:48 PM
    Thread: We are a cloud
Post: RE: We are a cloud

Hi CloudofWitnesses, it is good to meet you. We try to come on here and post regularly but there are some of us that have different ideas of how to spend the body's time so it comes and goes. I think ...
Shadows Welcome Wagon 12 4,424 10-02-2017, 09:46 PM
    Thread: Not just surviving
Post: RE: Not just surviving

Thank you for the reminder of how strong multiples actually are. We are trying to remember this. But it is hard sometimes.
Shadows Town Square 6 1,984 10-02-2017, 09:44 PM