Hi, new here and not sure if I belong

[Reilly]

Welcome to Mosaic Minds. The support here is terrific.
Sorry you are struggling with these issues. Hopefully your son will be able to eventually find a healthcare provider who will conduct a thorough evaluation and come up with the correct diagnosis. Many with DID often get misdiagnosed.
Try not to be too hard on yourself. If your son is multiple, they are very good at hiding themselves. I have a background in clinical social work and was familiar with DID and still didn't know that my child had parts.
Hang in there. If your son does have DID he is going to need your strength and support.
See you on the boards.