Miss having a t

[mosaic]

we haven't been in T since the first of the year - we don't really feel like we NEED t but we miss having someone to talk to about things...

through an odd set of circumstances it feels more like we're colleagues with our old t, so it would be odd going back to see her again...

we miss having someone to talk to. we aren't in great distress, we just miss it.

bleh.

[Tangled Web]

Would it be wrong or crossing any boundaries to see your old T as a colleague and chat with her? I understand having that feeling of missing having someone to talk to about things. I think that is the one of the reasons I still keep seeing my T.

[mosaic]

(08-30-2012, 03:21 PM)Tangled Web Wrote: Would it be wrong or crossing any boundaries to see your old T as a colleague and chat with her? I understand having that feeling of missing having someone to talk to about things. I think that is the one of the reasons I still keep seeing my T.

i dont know if it would be wrong or crossing boundaries... i think for me it just wouldn't fit -

it's like when i've gone back to colorado and visited my old t from there - they're great visits, but it's not the same kind of talking not sure if that makes any sense.

[nats]

hi mosaic, it makes sense..

[Tangled Web]

I think it makes sense. It is different talking to a colleague and a friend and talking a T. I understand. Maybe you should look into finding a T you can talk to. Or if you are just missing it I understand that also.

There was the time in my life when I had stopped self injurying and when I got through it where it wasn't so hard to not to do it, I realized I had started missing it. I know this isn't the same thing but it was a way to cope and in the moment and it helped me. There are still times to this day I miss it.....but I know I will not back to that again because there are healthier ways. I guess what I am trying to say is that I understand and that it is ok to go back to T if you want to or need to and it is ok just to miss it.
Sorry for rambling