Quote:Eventually some got tired of flight and are learning to stand and fight.
A bit same here =)
Quote:anger is a feeling not an action. teens take a while to figure that out(often they have the most anger) because we were raised with it being an action word.
Well usually i'm not considered as an angry person, i'm more dreamy/dissociative generally than angry, but it's clear i was not in a very good school, and got into plenty of mess, but i did martial art quite young about at 7/8 and all sport and martial art teacher know that you need not to fight with anger,and you must not hurt other peoples, so you need to gain a bit more psycho motor skill to have better self control on how to handle dangerous situation, and also train some good reflex of self defense etc
Quote:once a school VP said "I am very angry right now." before dx but we heard a voice say "no you aren't" because she was not yelling or threatening.
It's a bit the part i figured out with a thing on this site, with difference between rage and anger =)
Well from what i understood already on this site, there is really something linked to death threat, which trigger this dissociation thing, or it can happen in other circumstance, but in a normal situation if the person stop moving and being a threat nobody should attack them, so if this mecanism of dissociationis triggered it mean the threat is much bigger than the person, and it's this situation of death threat against which you are powerless that create the dissociation.
And it's clear what happen in those moment, i tried to analyze this with plenty of things, with cbt, or if it's anger, if it's panic, it's not anything of this, but it's clear it gives mega reflex and all.
Once there are three people who started to bother me, one had a stick, i grabbed the stick from his hand so quick etc, and even if i kept moralizing them during the whole bus trip, they didn't move a sh*t, one of them told i took cocaine but it's not this lol
And it's clear i'm not even angry or anything, there was a girl next to me she was not really scared by me, i was relatively calm, but like all sens highened, it's the sense of danger, and potential life threat or something that create this state, it's sort of to prevent dissociation i guess idk. And it's clear my memory doesn't works very normally when there is this kind of things involved :p
But it's from the moment you lived a situation of death threat that psychological traumatism can occur and then this feeling of fear/aggressivity and the fight flight mecanism is not working totally well or awakened for nothing and it can be disturbing because it's clear it give lot of power and it can be scary and it's made for this normally to scare people but it's the dark side of the force if you don't use this only against someone who is threatening you or other person =)
I'm sure they speak about this kind of things in shamanism with demonic possession etc i've seen things about this related to dissociation =)
Anyway this kind of reaction generally for me it's triggered mostly in situation when there is already some kind of cruelty or cowardice involved, because it's in this situation that the mind feel this bigger power to fight a big threat who can be potentially lethal, and it's not dangerous against people who are not threaning someone in a unfair or coward/cruel manner like authority abuse or this kind of things.
Well idk it's just my reasoning for the moment lol
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