kind parts missed

[Reilly]

Is is ok to miss certain parts? The part of my son who has taken control of the body for most of the day now is not very nice to me. I understand that he is hurting and I continue to be as supportive as possible but it is emotionally draining. He use to switch more often and I would get a break from his difficult nature. I miss parts that were kind or young and parts that I spent a great deal of time with. They don't like the part who is out and currently do not want him inside with them. I don't blame them. I just wish they would care about his sister and I and give us some respite occasionally.