looking for advise from other Marines

[The People]

Not anything right now. However, we have rules we have to follow. Teens etc know that if one breaks the rules we all pay the consequences. So they cannot say "screw the rules because I said I was going to do this and I will." Outside kids have disappointments because of jobs etc. Outside families suffer because one kid messed up and put the kainbosh on family weekend.

Is it going to get everyone into more trouble when you say "f*ck it I am doing it anyway?" If so my suggestion is that you rethink things and make some deals that you know you can stick to with those who are hurt by one inside person.

Being multie sucks in civilian life. Cannot imagine living your life of outside rules with it. However, don't make things worse for yourself. Sometimes everyone has to break a promise. Monomind or multie. That's life. And life sure sucks sometimes but it is what it is. Good luck.