Having Children

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(08-09-2012, 03:54 AM)My_horse_is_my_therapist Wrote: Hi everyone,

My husband and I have been wondering lately what will happen when we start having kids, hopefully in a year or two.
I hope this topic doesn't trigger or upset anyone, but we are quite lost on the subject.
Do you find babies help ground you? Or make it harder to hold on?
Does DID pass down (I don't see how, but again I'm not sure.), because that's a scary thought.

Sara

even for couples where DID is not involved, having children is such a personal choice for a couple... and there are as many viewpoints about it . there are some multis who choose never to have kids, some who choose to have them and some (like me) who had kids before realizing they are multi...

knowing yourself/ves is the most important thing - i knew from the first that my main goal when we started our family was to be a better parent than either of mine had been... i fell down on the job so many times, but on the whole i think i succeeded, based on how my kids (now grown) are doing... still, it was hard...

i do not believe there is a biological gene whereby DID is passed down.

not sure if any of this is helpful...

oh, and weldome!