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What would you do? - The People - 03-02-2018, 11:15 PM
RE: What would you do? - nats - 03-03-2018, 04:57 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-03-2018, 04:40 PM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-04-2018, 03:06 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-04-2018, 03:10 AM
RE: What would you do? - nats - 03-04-2018, 05:03 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-07-2018, 01:58 AM
RE: What would you do? - nats - 03-07-2018, 10:07 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-08-2018, 04:42 AM
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A long, long time ago when I read up on Ts and boundaries they gave a list of things to watch for. One of them was financial. T letting you pay a different amount than other clients or pay nothing at all.

I expect that the T I have now is sliding scale. I see her every 2 weeks and pay the same amount as I did with my last 2 Ts (one had cut it in half rather than my cutting my appointments in half. ) Today T offered not to charge me. I have had a lot going on financially and today was a bad day. I couldn't do it. Partly because I would feel guilty because I bought a bottle of wine or a pack of M&Ms. Especially the wine. I didn't explain what I had read. I don't want to do that.

What would you do? How would you feel? I am in a really bad place. My car is acting up and I have chipped teeth and chipped glasses. A senior who told me she was going to leave me her condo said instead that she was going to sell it in order to afford senior care.

I understand that. I was expecting that. But I had hoped that I would get a break. NSFL.I don't get breaks ever. Except for fr broken teeth and glasses and my car. That is not completely true but my life is sh*t.
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Messages In This Thread
What would you do? - The People - 03-02-2018, 11:15 PM
RE: What would you do? - nats - 03-03-2018, 04:57 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-03-2018, 04:40 PM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-04-2018, 03:06 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-04-2018, 03:10 AM
RE: What would you do? - nats - 03-04-2018, 05:03 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-07-2018, 01:58 AM
RE: What would you do? - nats - 03-07-2018, 10:07 AM
RE: What would you do? - The People - 03-08-2018, 04:42 AM

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