So tired of people

[nats]

in my experience, every good has some bad and vice versa. people in volunteer or helping positions are often particularly obnoxious, maybe to compensate for their own feelings of powerlessness or whatever attracted them to that type of work in the first place. obviously not all, but many.

so in any given situation, does the good outweigh the stupid? if yes, then we moderate our attitude by remembering what we like, if no then we stop. other people don't change and i imagine if you changed your tone of voice he'd find something else to complain about. if the good is worth the bad then maybe stick it out and if not then there's no point tolerating it.