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    Thread: is it bad?
Post: RE: is it bad?

We can totally relate. We hit a kind of paralysis when we try to push ourselves to do more than the minimum. Sitting is safe. Moving is dangerous... If we don't move we don't feel the terror of bein...
WendyLee Town Square 10 8,239 08-03-2012, 02:13 PM
    Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game

P is for Picking wild flowers Pickles Pools Peppermint ice cream putting a bathing suit TADA!
WendyLee Amusement Park 36 39,358 08-03-2012, 02:06 PM
    Thread: AFK
Post: RE: AFK

Have fun! Try to stay cool and dry.
WendyLee Town Square 2 3,151 07-20-2012, 12:41 PM
    Thread: Anger with God
Post: RE: Anger with God

to us it is just a lot of blame the victim stuff that takes the heat off of the abusers and the horrible society we live in. we are not praying hard enough.... we chose our foo for a reason... we ca...
WendyLee Cafe Esprit 16 14,039 07-19-2012, 08:46 AM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

we are feeling very small and alone lately. lots of inners are retreating into caves to wait out this storm and it feels very lonely. we have not been so alone in a long long time and it is very very ...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-16-2012, 06:12 AM
    Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life

orek, that is a good point. a few months ago we tried to get a local therapist who would come to our house, but their communication in-house and with me was terrible and 2 different therapists did not...
WendyLee Town Square 12 10,921 07-15-2012, 10:52 AM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

Hi nats, we hope the son will have time to help us. he is a very busy guy! we feel horrible today - much much worse than ever. maybe we are having a minor mental breakdown.... but we also feel like w...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-14-2012, 09:50 AM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

We are not doing very well at all. the landlord came 2x unannounced and pounded hard on the front door to do repairs. it scared us really bad! the nasty duplex neighbors were gone for a couple of days...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-12-2012, 11:25 AM
    Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game

L Longer days in summer Lightning bugs Lemonade Lakes for swimming Looking for a cool place on a hot day the end
WendyLee Amusement Park 36 39,358 07-12-2012, 11:04 AM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

we are starting to realize that we feel safer not using individual names. we do not lose time that we are aware of, so we are more like a collective mind where we switch personalities as one comes for...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-07-2012, 06:24 AM
    Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game

H is for hot hot hot! humidity hot dogs on the bbq having a suntan hair that is frizzy in the humidity we don't have names yet, but we think this is a good game and like it a lot. thank you for putti...
WendyLee Amusement Park 36 39,358 07-07-2012, 05:41 AM
    Thread: Online make-over site.... tons of fun!
Post: RE: Online make-over site.... tons of fun!

Lots of us like to play here and see the plain face turn pretty in a few simple steps and/or using templates of famous women. the other day we bought some lash-lengthening mascara that really works an...
WendyLee Amusement Park 1 3,889 07-05-2012, 08:53 AM
    Thread: Reintroducing myself/ourselves *I* & Loss
Post: RE: Reintroducing myself/ourselves *I* & Loss

Welcome back! So sorry about your kitty and dad and friend, we hope you feel better real soon. We are new here and really love it! We have been waiting to get better our whole 56 yr existence, but i...
WendyLee Therapy Lane 25 23,088 07-05-2012, 08:40 AM
    Thread: Empowered by Anger?
Post: RE: Empowered by Anger?

Rachael, maybe that is why we cannot remember to look at the lists. Thanks for that insight, we all really appreciate your input.
WendyLee Therapy Lane 35 37,164 07-05-2012, 08:29 AM
    Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game

E is for Eating cool watermelon on a hot day. yummm. Ending the day catching fireflys. woohoo! Escaping into a pool or lake or sprinkler or air conditioned place to cool off on a hot day. ahhh. Easin...
WendyLee Amusement Park 36 39,358 07-05-2012, 08:26 AM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

we talked to the son and he said we have to start decluttering again. before we found out we got robbed we were doing lots and lots, but am too sad to make any decisions. we told the son it is like cu...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-04-2012, 05:21 AM
    Thread: Empowered by Anger?
Post: RE: Empowered by Anger?

In therapy we learned that it is a very good thing to identify our bad feelings and how come we got them,,,, and when we are feeling better we need to find different ways to feel better in the future...
WendyLee Therapy Lane 35 37,164 07-03-2012, 03:29 PM
    Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life

We have been a loner and a day-dreamer for far too long, wishing and hoping ppl would come and fill our gaping hole of need. We need and crave the hugs and unconditional love that we have never had...
WendyLee Town Square 12 10,921 07-02-2012, 08:04 PM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

Since isolating and laying low has not worked EVER, we decided that we will open up our lives to the media with this fiasco about being robbed since I was decluttering and in constant pain and meds st...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-02-2012, 02:26 PM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

we. hate. this. place.... this. life. are we in hell? the end
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-02-2012, 07:42 AM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

We ate too much junk food today and are really stressed out. the landlord did NOT come back yesterday like he said to fix the attic wall so it is just loose boards stuck up between the duplex sides....
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-01-2012, 07:48 PM
    Thread: sleep problems
Post: RE: sleep problems

My DS said it has taken a while to tweak the settings on the CPAP machine, but he got the air flow to his liking now. We cannot sleep under the covers breathing stale air, or if we have a stuffed up...
WendyLee Health Center 13 11,295 07-01-2012, 01:37 PM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

Is this all just a game in the 3d world and we never learned how to play it? I/we are not sure of anything anymore. Reality is what? Why did ppl steal from us and use us and manipulate us? Are ...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 07-01-2012, 08:10 AM
    Thread: Feeling so lost and alone
Post: RE: Feeling so lost and alone

Hope you are doing better.
WendyLee Steam Room 4 4,672 06-30-2012, 12:25 PM
    Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life

I reread my post and the statement popped out at me...'where does one find that?' ONE being the word that popped out. it was meant in the context of 'a person', but we are not that. so still, the di...
WendyLee Town Square 12 10,921 06-30-2012, 08:28 AM
    Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life

Even as a child we had no one who loved us. I had always hoped and wished and dreamed that if I was a good girl and followed the orders from childhood, to be a nice girl and help ppl, to sit still, ...
WendyLee Town Square 12 10,921 06-30-2012, 07:15 AM
  I'm new/Introduction Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life

I have never had a healthy adult relationship and it sounds lovely. If I took a vacation I would want to go where there were lots of nice kind ppl and lots of hugs. That would be sooo different than t...
WendyLee Town Square 12 10,921 06-29-2012, 11:29 PM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

nats, it is good to be moving, yes, but we really get triggered with all the myriad decisions involved and then just shut down and make no decisions at all... we do not do well in new situations and ...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 06-29-2012, 09:29 PM
    Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively

thanks tw. I tend to space out on solitaire or crosswords to get a little relief. The drama of my criminal duplex-mates is not abating - it is actually getting more intense, and I am getting so trig...
WendyLee Steam Room 20 16,537 06-29-2012, 09:16 PM
    Thread: Howdy from Northeast USA
Post: RE: Howdy from Northeast USA

Elizabethn, That would be great to have a 3d meeting. I will try to come.
WendyLee Welcome Wagon 10 9,649 06-29-2012, 08:59 PM