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Thread: is it bad?
Post: RE: is it bad?
We can totally relate. We hit a kind of paralysis when we try to push ourselves to do more than the minimum. Sitting is safe. Moving is dangerous...
If we don't move we don't feel the terror of bein... |
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WendyLee |
Town Square |
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08-03-2012, 02:13 PM |
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Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game
P is for
Picking wild flowers
Pickles
Pools
Peppermint ice cream
putting a bathing suit
TADA! |
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WendyLee |
Amusement Park |
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08-03-2012, 02:06 PM |
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Thread: AFK
Post: RE: AFK
Have fun! Try to stay cool and dry. |
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WendyLee |
Town Square |
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07-20-2012, 12:41 PM |
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Thread: Anger with God
Post: RE: Anger with God
to us it is just a lot of blame the victim stuff that takes the heat off of the abusers and the horrible society we live in.
we are not praying hard enough.... we chose our foo for a reason... we ca... |
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WendyLee |
Cafe Esprit |
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07-19-2012, 08:46 AM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
we are feeling very small and alone lately. lots of inners are retreating into caves to wait out this storm and it feels very lonely. we have not been so alone in a long long time and it is very very ... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-16-2012, 06:12 AM |
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Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
orek, that is a good point. a few months ago we tried to get a local therapist who would come to our house, but their communication in-house and with me was terrible and 2 different therapists did not... |
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WendyLee |
Town Square |
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07-15-2012, 10:52 AM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
Hi nats, we hope the son will have time to help us. he is a very busy guy!
we feel horrible today - much much worse than ever. maybe we are having a minor mental breakdown.... but we also feel like w... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-14-2012, 09:50 AM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
We are not doing very well at all. the landlord came 2x unannounced and pounded hard on the front door to do repairs. it scared us really bad! the nasty duplex neighbors were gone for a couple of days... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-12-2012, 11:25 AM |
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Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game
L
Longer days in summer
Lightning bugs
Lemonade
Lakes for swimming
Looking for a cool place on a hot day
the end |
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WendyLee |
Amusement Park |
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07-12-2012, 11:04 AM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
we are starting to realize that we feel safer not using individual names. we do not lose time that we are aware of, so we are more like a collective mind where we switch personalities as one comes for... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-07-2012, 06:24 AM |
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Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game
H is for
hot hot hot!
humidity
hot dogs on the bbq
having a suntan
hair that is frizzy in the humidity
we don't have names yet, but we think this is a good game and like it a lot. thank you for putti... |
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WendyLee |
Amusement Park |
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07-07-2012, 05:41 AM |
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Thread: Online make-over site.... tons of fun!
Post: RE: Online make-over site.... tons of fun!
Lots of us like to play here and see the plain face turn pretty in a few simple steps and/or using templates of famous women. the other day we bought some lash-lengthening mascara that really works an... |
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WendyLee |
Amusement Park |
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07-05-2012, 08:53 AM |
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Thread: Reintroducing myself/ourselves *I* & Loss
Post: RE: Reintroducing myself/ourselves *I* & Loss
Welcome back! So sorry about your kitty and dad and friend, we hope you feel better real soon.
We are new here and really love it! We have been waiting to get better our whole 56 yr existence, but i... |
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WendyLee |
Therapy Lane |
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07-05-2012, 08:40 AM |
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Thread: Empowered by Anger?
Post: RE: Empowered by Anger?
Rachael, maybe that is why we cannot remember to look at the lists. Thanks for that insight, we all really appreciate your input. |
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WendyLee |
Therapy Lane |
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07-05-2012, 08:29 AM |
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Thread: Summer Alphabet Game
Post: RE: Summer Alphabet Game
E is for
Eating cool watermelon on a hot day. yummm.
Ending the day catching fireflys. woohoo!
Escaping into a pool or lake or sprinkler or air conditioned place to cool off on a hot day. ahhh.
Easin... |
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WendyLee |
Amusement Park |
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07-05-2012, 08:26 AM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
we talked to the son and he said we have to start decluttering again. before we found out we got robbed we were doing lots and lots, but am too sad to make any decisions. we told the son it is like cu... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-04-2012, 05:21 AM |
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Thread: Empowered by Anger?
Post: RE: Empowered by Anger?
In therapy we learned that it is a very good thing to identify our bad feelings and how come we got them,,,, and when we are feeling better we need to find different ways to feel better in the future... |
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WendyLee |
Therapy Lane |
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07-03-2012, 03:29 PM |
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Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
We have been a loner and a day-dreamer for far too long, wishing and hoping ppl would come and fill our gaping hole of need.
We need and crave the hugs and unconditional love that we have never had... |
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WendyLee |
Town Square |
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07-02-2012, 08:04 PM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
Since isolating and laying low has not worked EVER, we decided that we will open up our lives to the media with this fiasco about being robbed since I was decluttering and in constant pain and meds st... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-02-2012, 02:26 PM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
we. hate. this. place.... this. life.
are we in hell?
the end |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-02-2012, 07:42 AM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
We ate too much junk food today and are really stressed out.
the landlord did NOT come back yesterday like he said to fix the attic wall so it is just loose boards stuck up between the duplex sides.... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-01-2012, 07:48 PM |
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Thread: sleep problems
Post: RE: sleep problems
My DS said it has taken a while to tweak the settings on the CPAP machine, but he got the air flow to his liking now.
We cannot sleep under the covers breathing stale air, or if we have a stuffed up... |
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WendyLee |
Health Center |
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07-01-2012, 01:37 PM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
Is this all just a game in the 3d world and we never learned how to play it?
I/we are not sure of anything anymore.
Reality is what?
Why did ppl steal from us and use us and manipulate us?
Are ... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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07-01-2012, 08:10 AM |
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Thread: Feeling so lost and alone
Post: RE: Feeling so lost and alone
Hope you are doing better. |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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06-30-2012, 12:25 PM |
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Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
I reread my post and the statement popped out at me...'where does one find that?'
ONE being the word that popped out. it was meant in the context of 'a person', but we are not that.
so still, the di... |
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WendyLee |
Town Square |
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06-30-2012, 08:28 AM |
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Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: RE: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Even as a child we had no one who loved us.
I had always hoped and wished and dreamed that if I was a good girl and followed the orders from childhood, to be a nice girl and help ppl, to sit still, ... |
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WendyLee |
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06-30-2012, 07:15 AM |
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Thread: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
Post: I need a nice, loving, kind vacation from life
I have never had a healthy adult relationship and it sounds lovely. If I took a vacation I would want to go where there were lots of nice kind ppl and lots of hugs. That would be sooo different than t... |
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WendyLee |
Town Square |
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06-29-2012, 11:29 PM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
nats, it is good to be moving, yes, but we really get triggered with all the myriad decisions involved and then just shut down and make no decisions at all... we do not do well in new situations and ... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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06-29-2012, 09:29 PM |
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Thread: Feeling stuck creatively
Post: RE: Feeling stuck creatively
thanks tw. I tend to space out on solitaire or crosswords to get a little relief.
The drama of my criminal duplex-mates is not abating - it is actually getting more intense, and I am getting so trig... |
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WendyLee |
Steam Room |
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06-29-2012, 09:16 PM |
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Thread: Howdy from Northeast USA
Post: RE: Howdy from Northeast USA
Elizabethn,
That would be great to have a 3d meeting. I will try to come. |
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WendyLee |
Welcome Wagon |
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06-29-2012, 08:59 PM |